Is watching Porn the same as cheating?

If I watch porn is that cheating?

Living a double life....are you ok with that?

That is a question only you and your partner can answer. While most people don't consider it cheating, others do. It's best to find out your partner's habbits before things get too serious. There some men who happen to be, porn addicts and no matter what you say or do, they won't quit the habit. So save yourself the trouble and talk about it before things between the two of you get serious.

So what do I think on the matter? I personally do not like my partner doing it. Why? Because most of the time partners will do it behind your back. I have a problem with honesty and living a lie. If he's going to do it then he should do it on my terms, my consent, and in front of me. Why? Because no one likes to feel like they aren't enough. When you care for someone and you see that person looking at someone else and aroused, not by you but by them, its disappointing. Of course everyone's different and some may feel this way or feel aroused themselves seeing there partner aroused. But, porn will only bring trouble, eventually. Boundaries will be stepped on and trampled. If you give him the ok, he will assume your ok with him watching it, even if its just on your terms, and eventually he will begin to watch it on his own...and then the inevitable will happen....he'll lose his b***s in a matter of seconds.

Let's avoid it if you have an issue with it. I know I've said if I monitor it all will be ok. It's not. But I hope he will feel awkward enough to just stop watching on his own, I know, its happened. He actually hates me watching it. The same reason why I don't want him to watch is the same reason he doesn't want me too. So why do they do it? Cause they're morons! And we're the smart ones, use reverse psychology on his dumb butt. If he doesn't kick off the habbit then begin watching it on your "own" and have him accidentally "catch you".

If he doesn't mind, he likes it, and most likely doesn't really think of you much. I say this because every man I know of has an issue that their woman or loved one, is watching some other man (whether he's doing the dirty deed or just standing there), even if its on the big screen (have you seen those....pecks?)

Why? Because... They feel less (like we do), insufficient (like we do), insecure (like we do), but they do it cause there idiots and morons. If you want him to quit the habbit then give him a taste of his own medicine. Not for revenge but to teach him a lesson. And if you haven't caught on, the lesson is its not right to make someone feel like they're less and not worthy enough of your attention. You can turn them on just as good.

But for all you weirdos, lol jk, if you don't have a problem with watching porn, then watch it together and have freaky deaky sex...or not.

Most problems regarding partners and porn is that they feel unwanted. Why wouldn't you? He's watching other girls do naughty things and getting turned on by it, right? I don't want to start trouble so my advice to you is to talk things through. Some people do not have an issue with porn and have a blast watching it, while other's have issues and can lead to a break up.

My advice to you idiots: don't watch porn unless you want to be old, horny, and lonely.